a quote

no man is ever truly married until he understands every word is wife is NOT saying.

if i am guilty of anything in my marriage, it's thinking that bryan is on exactly the same wavelength as me and knows what i'm thinking most of the time.  and we do a pretty good job of picking up where the other left off, but of course not all the time.  sometimes i think something is so obvious and a huge fight ensues when i could have just told him what i wanted.  this quote made me laugh out loud, and then made me incredibly grateful for a husband who understands almost all the words i don't say.  i'm feeling particularly valentine-y this year, which is really abnormal.  but i think i'm coming around on this holiday.  maybe it's the babies boys, or maybe i'm just becoming older and wiser and learning to not focus on all the fake cheesy mushy parts of the day and appreciate real love.  speaking of, happy anniversary to my in-laws, who will celebrate 35 years of marriage tomorrow. they will be taking a train to the grand canyon to celebrate, although only seeing it from the top.  fred doesn't want anything to do with the swirling vortex of terror and i don't blame him.  

happy valentine's day.