17 May 2010

the stork house is a green house.

a huge part of our life is laundry.  a huge part of our laundry is diapers.  we decided way before the babies were born that we needed to figure out a way to use cloth diapers.  i went back and forth, doing research, reading articles in mothering magazine (which is a little granola for me, but still has a lot of good info), and we finally decided to do it.  we just kept thinking of the landfills filled with twice the disposable diapers of a normal family that wouldn't biodegrade before 500 years and couldn't be ok with that.


there are a ton of choices, from gdiapers (which are super cute and seem like a good idea, but are exPENsive) to the good old tri-fold with the plastic covers.  we landed on bumgenius.  at the time, we thought we were having a boy and a girl, so we got all different colors... which means that our boys wear pink undies.  whatever.  bumgenius diapers are either pocket or all-in-one, i still don't know the difference, but we have what we call inserts and outserts: the outserts are the outer cover that house the absorbent insert and wick the moisture away from their skin.  they're shaped like a normal diaper and have a velcro strip on the front, and velcro tabs on the sides.   we have two diaper pails, one for each part.  surprisingly, they don't smell... or we've just gotten used to it.  hopefully not that one.  


we have 40 diapers, which was a huge chunk of money in the beginning.  however, they will last until the boys are potty-trained.  when we came home from the hospital, they were 5ish pounds, so they couldn't wear the cloth diapers yet.  by the time we started using them, we had already spent more money on disposables than we had on our cloths.  pretty sweet.  at about a year, all of our velcro tabs started wearing out.  which means i got to rip off and sew on 80 new tabs... not cool, especially when we paid $16 a diaper.  but it was good, i got some good sewing experience.  one thing people always tell me is they would do it if they could handle the poo.  i understand this completely.  here's where the bumgenius diaper sprayer comes in - it's a tool you connect to your toilet that sprays the solid into the water, then you don't have to dunk your hands in the toilet water (which, apparently, is what my parents did- blech).  it has made this process so much easier! and i don't think more than one or two of our diapers is stained - after 14 or so months of using them!


after reading all of the message boards having to do with the velcro tabs wearing out, everyone suggested line-drying.  another something that was going to take up more of our time.  but again, these weren't cheap so we're going to get our money's worth!  bryan hung some line in the laundry room, and now we've added this extra step in the process.  we wash twice a week, a wash, a wash, and a rinse for the outserts and inserts.  usually after the babes go to bed.  lots o' water.  that's a whole other debate, whether it's better to use more water, because apparently, it's the same cost when it's all said and done - i just think of the landfills and can't possibly come to disposables as the better option.  


i bought two itso boxes at target, the diapers go in these on the second shelf of our changing table.  i didn't do this on purpose, but i thought the rainbow was particularly pretty.  as pretty as cloth diapers can be.  


a lot of people can't believe we do this.  i honestly don't think it's that big of a deal, and i guess i should have prefaced by saying that we aren't a completely-100% cloth-diapering household.  we use disposables when we travel, when we run out and haven't started laundry yet, even if i just don't feel like cleaning another dirty one...  one of my friends told me in the beginning, don't try to save the world all by yourself.  which i understood, but at the same time, i didn't really think i was trying to save the world. it just made more sense, especially since we were having twins, to do it this way.  it's our small contribution to saving the world.  

bye bye, facebook.

i don't know when exactly it happened, but i had an epiphany a little bit ago.  i'm 28, i'm a mom, i love being a mom, and i don't want any crap in my life.  my mom and i have had the same conversation a lot as i've gone to college, as i got a job as a nurse, as i got married and moved to a whole new place to make new friends, moved back home, etc...  as you get older, you realize that you don't have as much time as you used to, and there is nothing like children to make you realize that the time you do have is so extremely important.  which means things in your life that are not priority don't need to be there.  when i moved back home from fresno, i needed a way to keep in touch with my friends i'd made out there.  they all told me i needed a myspace page, i wasn't into it.  facebook seemed like a good alternative.  but not until i was on bedrest in the hospital did i join.  i was warned by my friends that i would become addicted.  i did.  it made me nosy.  and fake-interested in people who i wasn't that good of friends with in past lives (high school, college, etc.).  i was a different person in high school, someone who would definitely have a facebook account and have tons of friends and be all about it.  i look down my nose at that person a little, but what am i going to do, apologize for who i was? nah, waste of time.  so i joined facebook, and was connected to a lot of people who could now all see pictures of the babies and "stay in touch" with me from far away.  except now, as i'm older (and wiser?), i'd rather not. i'd rather not put pictures of my babies up on the internet on a website who's privacy policy is longer than the US Constitution.  i'd rather not read about someone who's going through a divorce because her husband is cheating on her or see someone's profane thoughts out there for all the world to see.  i know, they are allowed to put whatever they want, it's their own page.  and i don't have anything to do with that.  except i read it, and it gets in my brain, and it's negative, and i don't want negative things wasting my time in my brain.  i asked myself yesterday, i've been on it for a year and a half, how has it made my life better? . . . . . . it has kept me in touch with a handful (literally maybe 5 or 6) people who i've liked to keep up with.  a handful of people.  who know what my e-mail address is, and if they want, can contact me that way.  i think i sound a little snobbish saying that, but in all honesty, i'm not sorry i sound like a snob.  it all has to do with getting older, realizing what my priorities are, how important it is not to have negativity around, and not being sorry for how i live my life.  not to mention how much time i will save not being on it.  seriously.  peace out, facebook, i don't think i'll miss you.

16 May 2010

our first haircuts

i wonder how many moms have bad dreams and anxiety about their baby's first haircuts.  i'm not kidding, i really did - it was mainly about liam, because finn's hair is curly enough that it wasn't bordering on mullet like his brother's was.  who am i kidding, it wasn't bordering, it was full-on mullet.  i wonder how i didn't see it - i either didn't want to (probably the case) or every time i really thought about it, the curl in his hair was enough to mask the mullet.  so we took them down to our local barbershop (how 1950s is that?) and i ripped off the band-aid.  it really made me see how badly it needed to be cut.  they definitely turned into little boys rather than babies, which is what i was afraid of, but they're adorable little boys.  and it's not so bad.  really.

yeah, it was bad.

such big boys

his signature face

what's this guy doing?

only sitting still while watching baseball on TV

after

bye, bye curls :(
(still getting over this one)

oh, so cute.

13 May 2010

good times...

it was a short trip, but was packed with good friends (including celebrities!), amazing food/drinks, and two little ones with whom i did not get to spend enough time.  but i finally got to meet them, so i'm satisfied... for now.  we finally got some pictures together, including a photo strip taken at a restaurant where the cast of one life to live was also dining (ok, it wasn't the whole cast, whatever).  probably the hardest i've laughed in a looonng time.  we spent time with her sweetie, got a tour of the CSI:NY stage, and had the most wonderful rice balls that have ever been made... risotto, parmesan, mozzarella, provolone, fried - where can you go wrong?  saw julia stiles that night, no biggie..  JULIA STILES. made eye contact. with julia stiles.  best celebrity sighting yet. for me anyway, my bf's seen ben affleck, 'nuf said.  

we saw jane and the girls on saturday for brunch/lunch at a french bistro in south pasadena.  walked to the square afterwards and let camille and evelyn walk/run around on the library lawn - or just kept camille from playing with all of the strange dogs around...  i loved seeing these girls, one) because i missed my boys so much and two) because they have the same personalities, i mean, exact same personalities as mine.  i could see the minute we walked into jane's house that all the pictures i'd seen were so true, that liam was so much like evelyn and camille and finn were two peas in a pod.  e+l, so outgoing/loud/attention-grabbing and c+f, quiet, observant, sweet, sweet, sweet little ones who don't always allow their twins to steal the show.  i wished we could have spent more time with them, but naptime came quickly, and i understand the need for that!

here are a few pictures i took - not enough, but definitely good ones.  


man, i love this girl.


and i really love this guy!


finally together in the same state!!


camille: no, i will not keep this sunglasses on.


evelyn: i will, if you look at me instead of her :)


good times all around. heart.


bf.

07 May 2010

on my way...


california...here i come (a la liv tyler in that thing you do).  and this is how much i love my bf, horrible shot of me, great one of her.  we're too busy talking when we are together to remember to take pictures, so this one is from almost 6 years ago.  i'm headed out to LA to spend a long weekend with one of my favorite people, and have brunch with two little girls i've been dying to meet since they were born!  we've made a point not to make too many 'set in stone' plans, and i'm hoping i don't miss my babies too much on mother's day. (totally stupid mistake of mine, not realizing when i was going) all i can say is thank goodness for skype.  leaving friday, returning monday, and having some fabulous food and fantastic times in between!

06 May 2010

the zoo!

we finally took the boys to the zoo!  we've been wanting to since they were practically born, and thought they'd finally appreciate it, now that they're a little older... weeellll, i think they would have if there wouldn't have been a million elementary school kiddies running around, screaming and running around like crazy people appreciating the animals all on their own.  we were probably more excited than they were.  but that's ok, we bought an annual pass that will pay for itself in one more visit and we're sure they'll love it once they get a little older - and not so cranky if their morning snack gets a little delayed because australia is taking a little longer than expected.  a few pictures - just a few! i love these boys and their growing curiosity... it's really amazing to watch their little faces light up and the wheels turning - so amazing.






we're ready, let's go!


mom, did you see the baby deer?




we loved the meerkats 




my favorite little baby orangutang. that can't be the right spelling...


the kangaroos


immediately pre-meltdown... finn wasn't into the sheep being so close.
liam was indifferent :)

05 May 2010

soooo not weight watchers



every spring, it seems like we're going on a diet to lose the naturally packed-on pounds we've acquired during the cold winter months.  bryan does it with me, which helps a ton.  we always do weight watchers (because, let's face it, it's the only one that makes sense), and have been on it for almost six weeks.  i made my vacation to LA my goal and that's this weekend!  yeah... i didn't really reach my goal.  i'm a baker, i have to bake.  so sue me.  found this recipe via tastespotting and didn't wait a week until i made these.  toffee + roasted almonds + chocolate + butter + more butter + sea salt ... can't really go wrong. seriously. i can hear myself getting fatter.

03 May 2010

seriously.


can't get enough of this face.

01 May 2010

our path



the path has been done for a couple of weeks now, and it looks like it's been here since we moved in!  i love it so much, i can't believe bryan was able to fit all these stones together so perfectly.  since i took these pictures, he's planted ground cover in a few of the bigger spots between the rocks - he's not sure if it will do what he wants it to, but if it does, it will grow in between all the cracks... our front yard is shaping up!